Sunday, April 09, 2006
{-12hours for accurate posting time, Canada}Do you know the effects of rejection on adolescents?
Tremendous. Some grown-ups just don't realize it.
It's NOT a 'passing phase'. I think it actually have a profound effect on the person.
Sometimes it screws the person up so bad. Sometimes they are lucky to find someone later who'll put them back in place; but I'm sure there are the unlucky ones. Maybe that's one of the reasons for unhappy marriages and the two-year-itch-divorces--because these 'unlucky ones' just settled for whatever came their way.
Anyway, the point is, rejection is a very real thing. And so is love. How can these things introduce themselves to us at such a young age?
'Young'. I actually said that. Haha. The pomposity of 'grown-ups'. Whatever makes me think there is a 'right age'?
Hai. :(