Friday, October 03, 2003
:: who you really love ::
There is this guy who loves two gals at the same time but he don't know which one he loves more.
Someone taught him "If you are happy, who you think of first? If you think of her, she is the one you love more."
NO, THIS IS NOT THE WAY TO TEST THE FORMULA OF LOVE.
Ask yourself this question honestly : "When you are sad, which gal you Want to share your burden with?" If you think of that gal first, she will be The one that you love more."
However if you think of the same gal when you are happy & sad, that's the most perfect. But if you didn't think of the same gal, I would advise you to chose the one you are willing to share your sadness with.
In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many People whom you can share your happiness with, not necessary your lover.
If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone.
Sadness, however not many people is willing to share burden with you.
If you willing to tell her your unhappiness, I am sure she got to be Someone closest & most understanding person to you.
In other words, if she only think of you when she is happy, but look for someone else when she is sad. This kind of lover is too unstable, she didn't treat you as someone she can spend the rest of her life with.
hmm. whoever wrote this was obviously in a hurry to pen down his thoughts, because there's so many grammatical errors. *lol* sorry just finished a dumb english project, scrutinizing language and what-have-you so, *shrugs* haha.
anyway, i agree with what i put in bold...to a certain extent. i think if you can find someone who would be willing to share your sadness, and in doing so both of you are COMFORTABLE with sharing one's sadness, and vice versa, then that's the person you should spend the rest of your life with.
capice? :)
