:: guys, they come and go ::

just found out my friend fish is dating this girl a year our junior. i only saw her briefly once at the talentime auditions, looks real sweet n innocent kind.

funny thing, once u think abt it. he used to like me, and there was a big hoo-haa about the entire incident and i shall not bore you with the details you already know... haha.... yeah well... anyway..........

funny thing how guyz can just like u/love u for that moment and then leave you after that. read a quote once in the papers from one celebrity, she said something that went along the lines of:

"you know men are honest when, after they tell you "i love you", they continue to say, "i dont promise that i'll love you a min or an hour from now, but right now, i love you".."

i was really amused with this quote and kept reading it again and again over my cup of coffee, thinking, How True. i mean, seriously, who can promise forever? :)

bad experiences with guys. sometimes i think back and try to make sense of what happened. was it me? was it him? was it circumstances? or was it just the wrong time? wrong place?

wrong lifetime?

the big question i think about is...how can someone proclaim their "undying love" for you today and pack up to go tomorrow? is it their love that was fake? or were they just lying? or did love simply fizzed out overnight? if it did, was it love in the first place?

if everything made you fall in love with a person in the first place changed, will you still love that person?